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February 2016 | Toy Trucks, the Date Festival & the Bronco

The truck thing is built in to boys. Had I ever any doubt, no longer. There are trucks out all the time. Everywhere. These days you pick one usually to carry around all day. It’s like a ritual for you, Josiah. Somedays it’s “Wee-ooo” (your fire engine), some days it’s “Tow” (your tow truck), sometimes it’s a pick up, sometimes it’s a tractor, sometimes you’ll deviate slightly and choose a helicopter or  a train, but it’s always something that goes. And you will faithfully cart it around with you all day long, everywhere we go, putting it to bed with you (either on your nightstand with it’s own teetee, or more usually recently, actually in bed with you sharing your very own teetee). Today you’ve been hauling around one of Daddy’s Chevelle models with a hood that opens and shuts. You and I have been building “garages” lately out of old wooden puzzle boards and blocks to put all your vehicles in.

The other thing you constantly carry around? Monies. That’s what you call coins. And the bigger the better. You are a little quarter theif. I try to trick you with pennies, but somehow you know that the big ones are more special, and those are the ones you go after. I’ve had to hide my coin jar. Daddy’s is now behind the printer where you can’t reach it. Because if there are monies to be found, you will find them, and put them in your pockets, or put them in your trucks, leaving them strewn around the house and cars.

I attempted for the first time to cut your hair with clippers this month. I think I did alright, but will probably leave the job to professionals in the future.

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We spent a day at the Date Festival, the Riverside County Fair, our first time since Adela was a few months old I believe. I enjoyed being able to talk to you about the exhibits, about the art, the cooking, the carving, the stones. You’ve become a real little person with whom I can have conversations. It’s fantastic. You picked out a geode and had it cut. You both rode rides with Mimi, ate corn on the cob, and watched an amazing sunset. A perfect desert night.

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Daddy bought a Bronco. Yep. An old Bronco that needs a lot of work. It’s been something he’s wanted to do, according to him, since he was a teenager. So, he’s been systematically going through and fixing all the broken bits, , changing fluids, replacing parts. I have a feeling we’ll make a lot of memories in this latest vehicular addition to our family, and that it’ll be in our family for a long time. For now, it’s sitting in the back yard, getting better, but still in need of love. Daddy’s been working hard. By this summer, I’m sure we’ll be on dirt roads. I’ll work on getting a real picture of the outside so that we have a record of where this memory-maker began before we make it super cool.

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January 2016 | Reading, Tar Pit, & Toy Shop

You two started out the year with a trip to the dentist, Josiah’s first, and we survived. I never know what to expect walking into new situations like this with him, but I also don’t worry very much about it either. I think you’ve broken me of embarrassment in most situations, son. I pretty much anticipate that you will be loud and that whatever I expect for you to do, you are likely to surprise me with the opposite. In this case, you had a moment of fear in the chair. You didn’t like the reclining bit. I tried to convince you it would be okay, but you weren’t having it and seemed genuinely distraught, so I asked for a minute with you. We had a private conversation in the bathroom. Repeat x2, and you bravely held my hand and allowed first the hygienist, then the dentist to do their jobs. I was proud of you, and of myself for managing to help you overcome that obstacle. Two cavity-free mouths for now!

Adela, you received an Academic achievement award this quarter for your continued perseverance in learning how to read. Mrs. Hermanson talked about how you like to say “I can’t,” but then you somehow manage to do it when you try. The trying is what earned you the recognition, the getting better at trying and by trying, doing.

In the couple of months since then, you’ve at least doubled, maybe more, your reading ability. You are shocking me these days with the things you can read! It’s so neat. And you are so motivated. There aren’t many “I cant’s” heard around here these days. You are constantly asking to read, pulling books out on your own. It is never a chore with you. You enjoy it, and all the time and effort you’re dedicating to becoming a reader is paying off. You’ll even pull out books and read them to Josiah, complete with singing in the case of the photo below where you “read” (at this point it was mostly telling the story, but today, since I’m writing this in March, you’d probably be able to read most of it for real!) the Three Little Pigs. You’re singing “whose afraid of the big bad wolf?” one of Josiah’s favorite songs. And that moment was at your initiative. I was upstairs and came down to find you entertaining your little brother while he ate a snack.

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One of Mimi’s Christmas presents was a set of tickets to see the La Brea Tar Pits, so we took a day trip out to Los Angeles and saw some really old bones, and “really stinky” (according to you both) tar pits.  Afterwards we stopped at Griffith Park, a childhood memory for me (after a very long, and crowded drive, going the wrong way, ending up in the wrong place, but eventually finding it… the observatory area was absolutely mobbed with tourists), and you guys got to ride the carousel before we headed back home. One of my most vivid childhood memories happened in that park. My friend and I rode the carousel and left open cans of soda on the benches while we did so. When we came back and she took a swig, she pulled the can away from her mouth with a shrieking scream, her tongue lolling out of her mouth, bee firmly attached by it’s stinger, dangling from it. Mimi had to pull the stupid bee off her tongue. Yikes. Always check your soda cans, kids.

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We had our first outdoor picnic in January when it temporarily warmed up for a few days. But it got cold again. January was a mostly inside month. One game you played repeatedly was “Toy Shop,” your idea, Adela. You get Jo’s tools (his “toodles” as he calls them, hehe) and measure and hammer and “make” toys to sell in your shop.

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December 2015 | Happy New Year!

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Coming up on 8 years sober and this is what fun looks like. There was a time I honestly couldn’t have imagined having a good time without alcohol. I was deceived and enslaved. But when the kindness and love of my Savior appeared, he saved me, not because of righteous things I had done, but because of his mercy (Titus 3). A holiday that used to mean getting as wasted as possible now means kids, friends, games, pizza, balloon countdowns, sparkling cider toasts at midnight, having my full faculties to enjoy it all. It’s good to be free. He redeemed my life from the pit and crowned me with love and compassion. He satisfied my desires with Good Things (Psa 103). The biggest lie I ever believed was that the world would make me happy, getting away from the “rules of religion,” being “free to do what I want.” Jesus is freedom. The hard things I have fearfully “given up” for him have always been shown to be the chains that held me. He always has something better for me than the things I fear to give him. That’s not me being spiritual or trying to be better than anyone. It’s just the wonderful firsthand truth of my real life! Trusting him, following him, is a lifelong process and I am far from doing it perfectly. I am quite a mess about quite a lot of things. But I reflect on where I’ve come from, where he’s led me, and any good there is today, he gets all the credit. Here’s to more trust, more reliance, more wanting what he wants. He’s a good, good Father. He never gives up on us. Ever. He makes all things beautiful in his time. He has a good plan. He never changes. He is available to us all. He loves me. And you.
Happy 2016!!